A while ago, we wrote a post called How To Spot An Abuser Who Claims To Be The Victim
That post included the statement that
“It really is not that difficult to recognize an abuser. Their mentality of power, control, entitlement and justification always betrays itself in their speech and you can hear it if you know what to listen for. “
I have had some second thoughts on this. Having read so many times now (from experts like Robert Hare, George Simon Jnr., Martha Stoddart) that even the experts can be deceived by sociopaths and psychopaths, because these individuals without conscience can play their manipulative tune on anybody’s heart strings, I think maybe we should revise what we’ve said.
Maybe it’s more like this:
When the abuser has his Jekyll face on, he can fool even the experts. He can fool the woman he’s targeting to get to marry…
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