Monthly Archives: November 2015

The Loneliness of Sexual Victimization: Am I the only one?

Originally posted on A Splash of Love….:
The perception that abuse doesn’t happen in Christian or religious circles is a setup for one of the most hopeless and agonizing sufferings; isolation.¬†As if the hopelessness of believing there is no way…

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Is There Life After #Denial About #Sexual Abuse?

Originally posted on A Splash of Love….:
Denial. That ability to survive in a state of extreme trauma, by living as though that reality does not exist. It is a gift in childhood, when our young minds have no understanding…

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Take the Wicked Away from Your Presence

Originally posted on A Cry For Justice:
Take away the dross from the silver, and the smith has material for a vessel; take away the wicked from the presence of the king, and his throne will be established in righteousness.…

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Dear Victim, You Have Permission to Speak: #NoMoreSilence

Originally posted on A Splash of Love….:
Victims of sexual abuse often struggle with a sense of obligation to silence. There are many reasons for this, ranging from an imposed silence, to personal guilt, to religious duty. Many victims spend…

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Cardboard Note from a #SexualAbuse #Victim: “Needed: Someone to Love Me”

Originally posted on A Splash of Love….:
The need for love and understanding is universal. Particularly the need to be loved by our parents, and supported by them. But so often at a time when children who have been molested…

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Wise Words about Abusers from Proverbs

Originally posted on A Cry For Justice:
Do you see a man who is wise in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him. (Proverbs 26:12) Like a madman who throws firebrands, arrows, and death…

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#GiveBackTheShame… #StopVictimBlaming…#RememberVictims #30Days

Originally posted on A Splash of Love….:
An observation I’ve made in speaking out about sexual violence, is the imbalance of the whole thing. Mention the corruption and wickedness of the thing, and comments or private messages trickle in (or…

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