Most of our readers are suffering under abusers and if they’ve left their abusers they’re still suffering from their abuser’s conduct — the abuser’s slander, the court battles, the long-term health effects of living under constant stress, the abuser’s allies in the church, the social isolation, financial problems, trying to manage kids who are manipulated by the abuser on visitation, trying to maintain relationships with kids who are living with the abuser, trying to rebuild relationships with their adult children who are blaming the victim rather than the abuser, the list goes on and on.
So most of our readers are suffering a lot. My guess is that only a minority of our readers have got their lives to a place where they are safe and happy and not living in crisis mode the majority of the time.
This post is written particularly to encourage those who are still under the pump of abusers. Those…
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