My “biblical counselors” made me confess to all my “sins” (things I might have done to make him mad; things I might have done to “make” him abuse me)… out loud… to them… Then they smiled at me and asked if now didn’t I feel better.
But I was even more miserable! I wept and wept. They rubbed my back and said I should let it all out.
But I wasn’t crying for repentance sake. I was heartbroken over how they were repeating and piling on more abuse! Acting just like him! Telling me everything was all my fault! And then acting all nice and sweet when I was broken and bleeding inside but trying to crawl through their hoops.
Then they told me I had to make a list of church people who had re-
traumatized me (but not to include my counselors who were making me write the…
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