Monthly Archives: August 2018

13. Do Abusers Change? — Chris Moles answers that question with a mixture of truth and foolishness.

Originally posted on A Cry For Justice:
Chris Moles is well aware that most abusive men do not apply themselves to the hard work of reforming their characters. He claims that he’s seen a few abusers reform. I personally think…

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An Abusive Marriage, Well-Meaning Christians, and God’s Word

Originally posted on Spiritual Sounding Board:
*** I ran across a post on Facebook that a friend wrote. Flo Fromer-Wedding posted about the spiritual tug-of-war process she went through while she was in an abusive marriage.  Unfortunately, the church is…

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Willow Creek, Your Time Is Now

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I would love to reconcile with my dad. But I need to see repentance.

Originally posted on A Cry For Justice:
I grew up in a Christian home. I should clarify, my mother’s faith was always an inspiration to me, but all I saw with my father’s so-called faith was hypocrisy and using the…

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An Open Letter to Heath Lambert and Leadership of ACBC

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Biblical Counseling and Domestic Abuse

Originally posted on Spiritual Sounding Board:
Biblical Counseling, Domestic Abuse, Victim Safety, Heath Lambert -by Kathi The Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC) will be holding their annual meeting this fall addressing Biblical counseling and abuse. Leading up to this…

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11 Chris Moles discredits and mislabels victims of domestic abuse

Originally posted on A Cry For Justice:
Chris Moles, Bethlehem Baptist Church 2017 Chris disapproves of survivors having a victim identity or victim-hood status. He conveys the idea that victims are somehow wrong to be so aware of their victim-hood.…

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Dealing with Abusive Men

Originally posted on My Only Comfort:
Thoughts on Psalm 129, from a sermon preached at First Reformed Church, February 9, 2014. Many a time have they afflicted me from my youth, may Israel now say: 2 Many a time have…

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10. Victim care is vital – Chris Moles & other biblical counselors are falling short in this

Originally posted on A Cry For Justice:
Victim safety and wellbeing must be the fundamental guiding principle if you are counseling  abusive men or doing anything to hold them accountable and call them to reform. It’s vital to put victim safety…

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