Rev. Chris Moles posted this gem on our FB book page. We felt it needed to be shared here also.
I often tell our guys [in the Behaviors Change Groups we run] that changing behavior without a change of heart is like taking all the apples off an apple tree, stapling bananas in their place and saying, “Look at my beautiful banana tree!” Give it time, the apples always come back. The heart of violence must be uprooted. [Rev. Chris Moles}